Here's a nice guidance 2 share which i quoted from SGI 3rd President, Ikeda Sensei.......

WHAT IS LOVE?

A healthy relationship is one which two people encourage each other to reach their respective goals while sharing each other's hopes and dreams. A relationship should be a source of inspiration, invigoration and hope.... Rather than becoming so love-stuck that you create a world where only the two of you exist, it is much healthier to learn from those aspects of your partner that you respect and admire and continue to make efforts to improve and develop yourself. Antoine De Saint-Exupery, the author of The Little Prince, once wrote, "Love is not two people gazing at each other, but two people lookin ahead together in the same direction."

-Daisaku Ikeda-